Dear Parents,
We have been talking about how the development of the brain effects your teen's behavior. We've talked about their increased need for sleep, and the development of abstract thought.
Today I want you to consider the part of the brain that has NOT developed yet.
Did you know that the growth of the brain that we have been discussing begins in adolescence, and continues until about age 21!! That is not to suggest that our brains stop at that point. We are always making new neural connections, so you always have the capacity to learn new things (or unlearn old things that no longer serve you, as the case may be).
What is relevant to our teens behavior is that the part of the brain that understands strategy and consequences, tends to come a little later in their development. This is why we sometimes see teens engaged in high risk behaviors, and they seem not to care about the potential consequences. This is because in some cases, the neural connection hasn't been made, so they don't connect consequences to the high risk behavior.
Research suggests that this is the case, and many parents have reported experiences that align with this research. I personally have not had this experience with my own teens.
In working with parents, there is no "one size fits all" approach. You and your teen are individuals with your own personal perspectives and your own path of brain and personal development. The power of coaching is in the individualized approach, taking your needs and personal experiences into consideration, and modeling a plan designed specifically for you and your family.
For more information on our personalized coaching programs,
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To Your Family,
Jane Cabrera
The Parent Success Coach
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