Dear Parents,
Another category of kids who get into revenge cycles are sids who are over-pampered. This surprises people a lot, because when you see the kid who has everything, you think, what have they got to be mad at? Well, over-pampered kids typically have no boundaries, so there are no consequences even when they act inappropriately.
These kids tend to lose respect for their parents inability to set boundaries, and in turn lose respect for themselves. You see, when there are no boundaries and no consequences, it feels like no one cares for them, and they feel unloved. Because they can act without consequences, it feels like the world owes them something, and when the world doesn’t deliver, they end up feeling unloved.
I will be talking about boundaries in my FREE teleseminar series on Tuesday November 1st at noon, EST.
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To Your Family,
Jane Cabrera
The Parent Success Coach
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