We've been talking about power struggles, how to recognize them and the dynamics of a power struggle.
So how do you get out of one? Here are Four tips you can use immediately.
# 1 Way to Get Out of a Power Struggle: Just walk away.
Crazy, right? Not really. Go back to your Three dynamics, and you’ll see how it makes sense. 1) You break the flow of growing energy. 2) YOU don’t get seduced into the JOY OF OPPOSSING – This allows YOU to maintain YOUR composure and a level Head. 3) You break the connection. Don’t worry, your child will want to reconnect. They will have to find another way, other than a power struggle.
Tomorrow I will give you another tip.
To Your Family,
Jane Cabrera
The Parent Success Coach
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