Dear Parents,
A few days ago I told you about my really unique raft/body surfing technique. I stand out right where the really nice waves break. Just before it's about to turn, I jump in front of it and whooosh, I go for a ride and wash up on shore in no time. Timing is everything, and provides for a very fun experience!
The same thing goes for communicating with our families. The timing has to be right, and sometimes you have to wait for it. If you have ever tried to communicate with someone when they are not ready to talk or the timing isn't right, you know that it can go poorly, or even end up worse than where you started. If you have something important to discuss with your teens, ask them to make time for it, so they are prepared. Ask them to set some time aside, and do it in a way that they won't feel on the defensive. With a little preparation and proper timing, you can find yourself exactly where you want to be and able to create the family harmony that you desire.
To Your Family,
Jane Cabrera
The Parent Success Coach
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